12 things to pay attention to on a first date
Among all dates, the first date is particularly important, as a good start is half the battle.
Dating is a stage that must be experienced from being single to falling in love, and every date is an excellent opportunity to enhance mutual affection and intimacy. However, many single babies will mess up their dates
What are the precautions for a first date?? Peach has collected 12 dating tips and precautions to provide to everyone.
Don’t forget important details, which may sound obvious, but can easily be overlooked. If you are on your first date or not yet familiar with someone, your name, profession, or some details she has mentioned but you haven’t taken care of them, if she finds you forget or mistake them, your enthusiasm will noticeably decrease.
1： Don’t pretend to like things you don’t like
You may pretend to like proposals or things that the other person likes, but you don’t like yourself, in order to cater to them or out of kindness to not disappoint them. This may create unpleasant experiences or friction, affecting your future interactions.
2： Choice of food for dating
Choose elegant food as your date meal, don’t let the laborious chewing and oily stains affect your appearance. When dating, you don’t pay attention to what you eat, so you can choose food that is convenient to eat without considering taste.
3： Don’t always look at your phone
Nowadays, mobile phones have become a necessity in people’s lives. They can be used while walking, eating, or before going to bed… It’s true that the phone is always with you, but remember, it’s better to mute or turn off your phone during a date, and focus on your conversation, leaving a space for both of you, which is also a sign of respect for each other.
4： Do not choose duplicate dating venues
Freshness is an important factor that makes dating wonderful. Different locations will leave you with different beautiful memories, make your love full, and also make her feel fresher towards you.
5： Don’t refuse to meet her family and friends
If she makes such a request, it means that she is gradually accepting you in her heart. Don’t refuse, integrating into her social and life circles is a necessary path for your love. On the other hand, you can also get to know her better through her family and friends.
6： Pay attention to some small details
Whether it’s a first date or in daily work, men should show enough gentlemanly demeanor, such as opening the door for women when getting off the car, pulling chairs for women when dining, etc. Women must also not forget to say “thank you”, and one thing, never be late.
7： Respect each other
You should respect the other person’s habits, hobbies, and religious beliefs, and absolutely not harm them in any way.
8： Show confidence
Since it’s your first date, you must firmly believe that you will enjoy a very pleasant date and leave a very good impression on each other.
9： Don’t keep focusing on your own problems
Don’t keep talking endlessly about your work during a date chat, leave some time for the other person. Also, never mention your ex girlfriend.
10： Give the other person a small gift
Boys can bring a small gift for women, but don’t go crazy buying expensive gifts. A book or a rose are both good choices. A truly meaningful gift has nothing to do with money.
11： Dress up reasonably for your date
Be clean and tidy, not sloppy. Girls value first impressions very much. If the first impression is not good when meeting, it will greatly reduce the girl’s favorability. And you also need to wipe your shoes. If you look sunny and shiny today, but your shoes are not clean at first glance, it will greatly reduce the girl’s favorability.
12： If you want to see the other person again, call her and tell her.
If you want to see her, just call her and tell her that boys should be more proactive and not wait too long. Similarly, if you don’t want to further develop your relationship, you should honestly tell her. Don’t let others wait for you. Honesty between two people is the most basic way to treat others.
Help everyone do every detail well, because details determine success or failure. The initial agreement has little impact on the success of family and career, but those who fail from the beginning will definitely not have a good outcome.
