My Love Story, Complete Version.

Man, you’re very bold
I used to love watching Korean dramas and indulge in fantasies, but after being with you, I stopped watching them because I felt like I was the happy female lead
On the wedding stage filled with flowers, the UP host @ Kongka, with tears in her eyes, raised the microphone and spoke with a hint of pride and coquettishness. Empty Card is 26 years old this year and comes from Nanchang, Jiangxi. As a postgraduate entrance examination UP host, she updates her political courses and experiences on Bilibili on a daily basis, attracting nearly 3 million followers.
At the end of last year, the empty card “did not focus on its main business” and released a wedding video of itself, publicly announcing the wedding news to all fans.
It is not uncommon to announce romantic and marriage news on Bilibili. But the love story of the empty card sounds full of twists and turns——
The groom across from her was once one of the nearly three million fans of the empty card and became acquainted with it through a private message on Bilibili.
The story still starts from two years ago.
On February 14, 2022, Empty Card updated a makeup video that lasted over 6 minutes. In the video, she puts on makeup while introducing her makeup to the camera, looking ordinary and unremarkable. At that time, Kongka had just graduated with a master’s degree and had been idle at home for six months. Not going out to socialize much has turned her into a homebody.
Kongka did not date during her undergraduate and graduate studies, and her last romantic experience can be traced back to her naive high school years. She herself also carries a longing for love.
So in that makeup video, Kongka casually stated her criteria for choosing a spouse: emotional stability, maturity, handsome appearance, filial piety, and being in Nanchang.
She had no expectations for this video, and in her opinion, it was essentially a makeup video compared to choosing a partner. But little did they know that the gears of fate had already begun to turn.
A week later, the assistant in charge of operating the account forwarded a private message to the empty card, saying, “Card, I think this guy is good.
The private message came from a boy who warmly greeted him and attached detailed information such as his education, weight, and workplace, hoping to get to know Kongka. Coincidentally, this boy not only lives in Nanchang, but also works only ten minutes away from his home. The empty card added the boy’s contact information with a try it out attitude.
But the atmosphere was once awkward. At first, the boy sent a message to Kongka, sharing what he had seen and heard. Kongka responded coldly and told him, “I don’t like online chatting, why don’t we meet offline?” Without knowing where Kongka was, the boy made an appointment with a coffee shop across from Kongka’s house. What a coincidence, “the empty card exclaimed once again.
A few days later, the two sides met for the first time. The empty card was waiting at the corner of the coffee shop in advance, and the boy walked in and started ordering drinks at the bar. Kongka stepped forward and patted his shoulder, and the boy turned around. Suddenly, Kongka’s heart skipped a beat, feeling that the boy was completely focused on his own aesthetics.
Looking back, my memory of that day was actually very vague, I only remember everyone sitting by the window. The sunshine was particularly good that day, shining on him like it was glowing
The empty card dared not make eye contact with the boy and stared at the orange juice in his hand for the whole afternoon with his head down. Halfway through, the boy stood up and went out to make a phone call, only then did the empty card dare to look up at his back. The boy was also impatient with the empty card and found various topics to break the ice. In the end, he had nothing to talk about and even talked about international affairs, which made the empty card feel tired. I don’t know what I’m doing, but I feel like I’m willing to continue listening to him speak. “A few days later, when the empty card encountered some problems and wanted to ask the boy for help, I met him for the second time. After solving the problem, the boy walked around the city with an empty card and found that the card dared not look at him directly. He said, “I won’t watch your videos online anymore. I want to get to know you again offline
That day, they looked at each other in the elevator of the shopping mall. The boy is one head taller than the empty card, who stands on a higher staircase and looks at him at eye level.
Intensive interactions and conversations make empty cards go up. She began to lose sleep, tossing and turning for this wonderful fate. The third time we met, the boy made an appointment to watch “Love Like a Bouquet” with an empty card. Although I haven’t watched it, I know the classic line from this movie, ‘If you haven’t confessed your feelings after eating three meals, you are just ordinary friends.’. She had a premonition that the other party might confess their feelings. Lyrics from ‘Love Like a Bouquet’
That day at the cinema, Kongka stared stiffly at the screen without moving, her heart filled with both anticipation and fear, waiting for her confession to happen. But the confession hasn’t arrived yet. The boy knows that an empty waist is not good, so he just takes off his coat and puts it on the back of the empty waist.
After dinner, the two of them walked towards the subway station when the empty card suddenly spoke up, “I don’t want to go home, you haven’t said if you like me yet. The boy fell silent. The two of them walked aimlessly in the city, shoulder to shoulder. Near the Palace of Longevity, the boy finally spoke up, ‘I like you.’.
Love thus descended upon the empty card. Kongka had previously told the boy that she likes to watch “Kiss of a prank”, and Yuan Xiangqin and Jiang Zhishu were eating cake on the Ferris wheel on their first wedding anniversary. On the 100th day of falling in love, the boy took an empty card to ride the Ferris wheel and brought a cake. But there were several strangers in the private room, and the boy awkwardly suppressed the idea of proposing.
When he got home, the boy knelt down and proposed, reading out the proposal words that had already been written in the memo word by word. Empty card, while listening, tears streamed down his face. In just 100 days, the boy recorded every little thing in love in his memo. The empty card said, ‘I am willing.’.
On February 23, 2023, Kongka got married. This day was carefully selected by the empty card, and the date for the boy to send a private message is February 22, 2022, which happens to be a symmetrical day one year later on February 23. She wants to continue the wonder.
This love must happen wonderfully, naturally smooth and efficient. On Bilibili, empty cards are well-known for their fast track postgraduate entrance examination courses. After announcing their marriage through a video, some netizens exclaimed, “It’s surprising that even a blogger who took the postgraduate entrance examination was able to fall in love quickly
The netizens who have followed the empty card for a long time to read and recite the theory of postgraduate entrance examination were moved by this, like seeing a familiar friend get happy, “the Internet sisters who accompanied me for postgraduate entrance examination has a good love”. Looking back, Kong Ka said that there weren’t many romantic moments like idol dramas in this relationship, but it was filled with warmth and sweetness in daily life.
During his doctoral studies after marriage, the boy took care of all the household chores. During the just passed Spring Festival, boys were flying up and down in the kitchen, while empty cards were watching from the side. My mother leaned in and asked, “Your husband is really good, very good at doing things. He’s busy making New Year’s Eve dinner. How did you teach him
Since getting to know each other, both parties have been getting along as completely ordinary people, completely shedding the relationship between fans and UP hosts. In order to avoid embarrassing the empty card, the boy consciously did not watch her videos in front of the empty card. There are too many coincidences in this emotion, but it is these coincidences that gradually form the inevitability.
Even the empty card lamented that she had accomplished too many impossible things on Bilibili.
She started creating videos in 2019, repeatedly jumping between taking the postgraduate entrance exam and becoming a fashion blogger. Later, due to the popularity of the “Political Accelerated Framework for Postgraduate Entrance Examination” series of courses, she focused on sharing political content for postgraduate entrance examination. Now she has successfully transitioned from an engineering student to pursuing a PhD in Marxist theory. In the wedding video comment section, some netizens said that an empty card is actually a cultivation of UP hosts. In just a few short years, I witnessed her taking the postgraduate entrance examination, pursuing a PhD, and finally getting married, step by step stepping into a vast world.
At the end of the wedding, she and the groom laughed and danced freely in the background music of “Can’t Take My Eyes Off You”.
She thought that there would be more wonders in the future waiting for her to realize.