Dating tips: 11 super practical dating chat topics

Many friends don’t know what topics to discuss during dating. Some find it challenging to respond to conversation topics, wanting to use dating to end their single status but not knowing how to present themselves well. Others talk endlessly during dates to find common topics, unknowingly causing resentment from their dates, making the entire dating experience unpleasant. Some, however, adopt an overly “nonchalant” and indifferent attitude, leading to unsuccessful dates. So, what topics should be discussed during blind dates in Shanghai?

1. Your future
   Share your thoughts on the future, what you aspire to do, your goals, and what inspires you
   Girls like boys who know their futures and are striving to achieve them (even though they haven’t done so yet)
   Please speak with your own natural and passionate emotions, after all, this is your future! Goals are not always smooth sailing and ambitious, but as long as your goals are meaningful to you and worth pursuing, girls will appreciate your determination.
2. Interests, friends, and family
   Talk to her about her hobbies and interests. What does she like to do when she’s free?
   If you share common interests, you can share a lot of experiences with each other; if not, it’s best to get to know her preferences, ask her how many good friends she has, how close you are to her, and where she likes to go with her good friends?
   Ask her whether she prefers her father or mother, and why. Who do you think you look more like?
3. Perspective on life
   Many girls are actually very considerate, but unfortunately, boys usually only pay attention to their appearance, ask about their future plans, and inquire about what they think is the most important thing in life, or even whether they have ever pondered the meaning of life?
   This kind of words that are rarely said by others, sometimes if you ask her at the right time and in the right tone, she will say them out, and she will be very impressed by you
   Of course, don’t take such topics too seriously. Relax a bit. If you see the other person frowning and unable to answer, you should also help her out by changing the topic
4. Gossip
   Ask her if she is a girl who is prone to spreading gossip, or what the most exaggerated piece of gossip she has heard in the workplace (or school) is.
   You can also use news or celebrity gossip as topics, such as what does so-and-so celebrity think?
5. Your little secret
   Do you have any little secrets that you wouldn’t usually tell others?
   If you tell your date, she will feel that you trust her and will be flattered. It is likely that she will also share a little secret with you, which is a great way to interact.
   You can initiate a conversation about secrets through association. For instance, you could say, “Wow, did you know that when I saw this menu, it suddenly reminded me of my childhood exam papers… I really don’t know why this thought popped into my mind. Would you like to hear a secret from my past?”
6. Holidays
   You can share your most interesting and memorable travel experiences or favorite gathering spots, and also discuss some fun things related to vacations. After all, who doesn’t love a vacation?
   In addition, we can also chat about which new movies have been released recently, which new restaurants have opened, and what fun activities are available. Then we can discuss the appropriate time to go and experience them together.
7. Praise her
   This is not really a topic, but if you really like her, you must hint at her at the right time to give her some room for imagination about you
8. Her passion lies in
   Enthusiasm and interest are somewhat similar, but interest is merely a leisure activity that one enjoys doing, whereas enthusiasm is something that one is passionate about and has a goal for. It may be backed by some ideals or aspirations. Some girls have enthusiasm, while others do not.
   If she has passion, you can show interest in what she loves, let her talk about it, and then praise her enthusiasm. You will see her eyes sparkle when she chats with you. When discussing this topic, be sure to maintain sincere curiosity and praise, as superficial remarks may have the opposite effect.