20 better love experiences for boys to know earlier
1. After falling in love, don’t be too polite. Don’t ask girls, can I hug you? Can I kiss you. Even if a girl has already imagined various kissing positions in her mind, she can’t say “okay”.
Since you have established a romantic relationship, be more proactive and direct. Girls won’t feel offended, but will find you very manly.
2. Don’t be intimidated by a girl’s mate selection criteria. Most girls’ criteria for choosing a spouse are told to outsiders. Girls are all emotional animals. As long as they feel right, the romantic standards of “height 180” and “appearance comparable to Daniel Wu” have long been forgotten.
3. Confess your feelings from the beginning, you will lose very badly.
Compared to showing off their cards right away, girls prefer the kind of elusive and heart wrenching feeling. As the saying goes, what cannot be obtained is always in turmoil.
If you like a girl, don’t let her guess your thoughts first. Approach her proactively and create a sense of unfathomable and ambiguous distance. Once she starts tossing and turning for you, your chances of success will skyrocket.
4. When chasing girls, don’t use too much force.
Otherwise, after falling in love, you will often face her soul
Interrogation: “You’ve changed.” “You don’t love me like before.” “You weren’t like this before
At the beginning, being too attentive can easily raise her expectations of you. Once you slack off, a girl will have a gap in her heart, thinking that if you get something, she will not cherish it, and arguments and conflicts will follow.
Sending 100 roses at once and sending 1 rose every day for 100 days may seem like similar efforts, but the results are vastly different. Boys, there’s no need for me to say more about what to do.
5. Girls have a bit of a love brain, liking someone is something they can never hide.
Faced with your pursuit, if a girl remains in a rational state for a long time without any response. Either she really doesn’t like you, or she’s hanging on to you.
In either case, this is not your intention to pursue her. Stop loss in time and let yourself go quickly.
6. Discover the shining points of girls more often and praise them frequently, such as giving a like to the answerer when you see a good answer. Such boys have good relationships with the opposite sex and can always be sweet in love.
7. People who don’t know how to love themselves cannot love others well.
Whether you are currently single or in a romantic relationship, first of all, you need to learn to love yourself well.
Don’t compromise yourself, don’t try to please anyone, pay more attention to your inner world, and do what you want to do. You need to first enrich and enrich your inner self before you have the ability to love others well. Remember, loving oneself is the beginning of lifelong romance.
8. Few people can meet their lifelong love right from the beginning.
It’s normal for two people to be incompatible, so don’t force yourself.
Love is not as important as you think. You can live without her, and the you in her heart are not that important.
9. Read more books, be sure to read more books, as meaningful content can attract the attention of the opposite sex.
10. If you are handsome, don’t be proud. The other person will be with you because you are handsome, but they will never continue to be with you just because you are handsome.
11. If you are not handsome, don’t give up on yourself. Don’t expect others to see your sincere heart through your messy appearance. Learn how to dress and take care of yourself. First impressions are more important than you think.
12. True love should be loving and independent of each other.
Don’t treat each other as your entire life, and don’t interfere too much with each other’s personal space. While loving each other, we should also respect each other. Due to the airtight relationship, it is destined to not go far.
Thirteen dollars can solve most of the problems in love.
At least when she misses the dress in the shop window and finds it expensive, you can help her buy it happily.
At least when she tells you that there is no sense of security in a different place, you can buy a plane ticket and fly to her without hesitation.
At least when she takes you to meet her parents, you can confidently tell them that you can marry her anytime.
14. The most taboo thing in dating is’ sacrifice ‘.
Don’t make sacrifices in front of others. In the process of love, any effort you make is based on your willingness to like the other person.
When you talk about sacrifice, it’s like moral blackmail, only putting heavy shackles on love and making the other person farther and farther away from you.
15. Between couples, never lose attraction.
If you don’t continue to improve yourself, your attraction to her will gradually weaken or even disappear.
Read more books, learn more, and exercise more to broaden your horizons and experience, maintain growth in strength, and let the other person always discover new shining points from you. Only then will she love you so much that she cannot help but love you.
16. Disappointment accumulates slowly, and emotions are also slowly worn away.
If the problem persists and there is no effective communication between the two parties, all conflicts will suddenly erupt one day, and then both parties can only leave disappointed.
17. If one day, you suddenly realize that the girl who was once full of you and would share every little detail with you, has suddenly become silent and no longer clings to you, it means she has planned to slowly move away from your life. You need to start reflecting on whether it’s your own problem.
Love at 18 is really strange.
Faced with earth shattering events, the relationship between the two sides became increasingly close. But when it comes to trivial matters, the two of them can easily split up.
When I like you at 19, everything you do is right. When you don’t like you, nothing you do is right.
20. Heartbeat is inevitable.
If you still have feelings for other members of the opposite sex despite having a partner, don’t blame yourself.
Because human emotions are uncontrollable, which is normal, what matters is your choices. Some people choose to indulge and then cheat time and time again; Some people choose to restrain themselves and remain loyal to only one person throughout their lives.
