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How to chat with girls and find topics is a compulsory course for every boy, and it is an important part of dating. Some boys chat in a dull and boring way, often ending up with awkward silences, which makes the girls they have been chatting with for a long time indifferent. There are many topics for chatting, but the key is how to smoothly transition between them and find suitable topics to bridge the gap in their relationship. This is the core issue that many boys need to address. Next, I will share a comprehensive guide on how to chat with girls and find topics, teaching you some key points to keep in mind and helping you open up your chat mindset.
How to chat with girls and find topics:
To actively find topics to chat about, and to have a pleasant conversation with a girl, you must prepare some topics in advance, so as not to feel awkward and at a loss. From a girl’s perspective, if the boy she’s chatting with is a person with a rich and interesting life, she will definitely be interested. Rich conversation content will increase a girl’s positive impression of you. Some boys have boring lives and are unwilling to make efforts to improve, yet they still try to force a conversation with girls, which can be challenging.
To initiate a conversation with a girl, we need to think of more topics and start with simple ones before delving into the details.
For example, to start with an emotional aspect, you could say: “The two cats in the neighborhood are howling every night, and it’s causing me to lose sleep. Or, my Husky knocked over the chicken soup I was cooking. Should I beat it?”?
For example, to start with humor, you can say: “It’s so annoying, there’s the smell of midnight snacks wafting outside the window, it’s killing me with hunger.”.
For example, starting with the weather, you could say: “It’s so cold today, it gives me a feeling of worldweariness.”.
For example, to start with a recent hot topic, you can say: “The epidemic has worsened recently. Have you taken a nucleic acid test?” (Or send a picture of you waiting in line for a nucleic acid test.)
For example, to start with the beautiful scenery, you can say: “This place is so beautiful!” (while sending the girl a photo of the scene)
For example, to find a topic from previous chat content, you can say: “How is it going now since you last…”?

How to chat with girls and find topics II:
In a chat conversation, it’s important to engage in interaction and manage the time allocation for each topic. When chatting with a girl, you should never let one side talk all the time, but rather engage in interaction. During the interaction, express your own opinions and find common interests with the girl. It’s fun to chat while listening to the other person’s words. When chatting with a girl, you should guess what she is thinking and what she needs while chatting. Many boys are most likely to make the mistake of talking only about themselves without paying attention to the girl’s reactions or needs, resulting in fewer topics and less interest as the conversation progresses.
Using intimate nicknames can quickly dispel the strangeness and enhance mutual affection, which is a highly practical technique in WeChat chatting. Many boys only use the other person’s name when chatting on WeChat, and this will not advance your relationship over time. Using intimate nicknames is a simple yet practical method.
Woman: I was stuck in traffic for an hour this morning, and I missed breakfast. I’m so hungry!
Man: Baby, you’ve been working so hard. Do you want me to bring you some breakfast.
Female: Hehe! Isn’t this thoughtful
Woman: But you seem quite busy. How can you find time to deliver it.
Man: Of course, dear. I can get up at 5 am to make breakfast for you.
For guys who have already established a high level of attraction with a girl, they can be a bit more direct in their approach. They can openly express their needs towards the girl, evoking positive emotions in her, making her feel shy, embarrassed, and so on.
How to chat with girls and find topics: Part 3:

1. Fun things at work – saying these can indicate that you love your job.
2. Travel experiences – If you have been to the same places and have similar experiences, it’s naturally the most suitable topic.
3. Latest movies – Talking about gossip always seems a bit nosy, but discussing the latest movies is undoubtedly much better.
4. Local customs of hometown – People who love their hometown always give people a sense of reliability, stability, deep affection, and sincerity.
5. Looking forward to life – Talk about the life state you most yearn for, and describe a future that you will strive for.
6. Personal interests – During blind dates, you can get to know each other’s interests, which is a topic that is important for the future and can easily spark laughter. Be careful to maintain a suitable level of discussion.
7. Embarrassing childhood incidents – who doesn’t have some embarrassing incidents in childhood? Sharing them won’t tarnish your glorious image, but will make you feel approachable and adorable.
8. Baby children – Although you don’t have any yet, showing love is always beneficial. Alternatively, you can emphasize your original intention of not wanting children.
9. Pet Bonding – One’s personality can be discerned from their pet.
10. Life enjoyment – dating is for the sake of living together in the future, so what else can we talk about if not this?
    After a long chat, you can figure out the other person’s thoughts at this point. If you have any thoughts in that regard, you can take it to the next level, such as asking her out for fun or having a meal together. Chatting in person is very different from chatting on a software. It can be said that they are two different things. Therefore, chatting in person is also very necessary and allows for more contact.

How to chat with girls and find topics: Part 4:
Girls cannot resist witty and romantic remarks, which will spark her imagination and naturally create a feeling. To make a girl happy, you must first learn the humorous chat routines and use language to stir her heart.

1. I’ve sneezed many times just now. Are you thinking of me over there?
2. I can smell the fragrance on you through the screen.
3. Winter is coming, aren’t you going to knit me a scarf? Hmph, I’ll buy one myself.
4. Your silhouette is vivid in my mind, and only then did I understand the true meaning of being sexy.
5. I want to turn into a mosquito and bite your thighs every night while you are sleeping soundly.
6. There’s nothing more beautiful than a rainy day, when we can hide under the eaves together.
7. Let’s go outside and enjoy the breeze together. I’ll bring my ID card.
   How to chat with girls and find topics: Part 5:
   Don’t reveal all your cards at the beginning. You should learn to create a sense of lingering interest, making her eager to continue reading. Only in this way can you truly connect with a girl’s heart! At the same time, you should be flexible in your conversation, daring to take the initiative to end a topic, because only in this way can she feel a lingering interest. If you keep talking and talking, sooner or later you will exhaust the topic, and then it will become awkward, making the conversation boring. She will no longer have any expectations or concerns about you.
   I believe everyone wants to have some personal space, especially girls. If someone is always clingy to you 24 hours a day, over time, you may develop a certain level of resentment. At the same time, in this society, everyone has their own things to do and things to be busy with every day. Sometimes girls may be too busy to see the messages you send, but you keep waiting for her to reply to you. As long as she doesn’t reply, you bombard her with messages and keep asking. It’s possible that the other person is meeting an important client or having a meeting. At this time, if you bombard her with messages, you may disturb her and make her very resentful towards you.