If a girl really likes you, she will have these three behaviors

We all want to know if we are someone who is liked by girls. Perhaps this idea has nothing to do with love, but it can bring us confidence and give us strength.

If it is related to love, we can use this as a basis for judgment to consider our next course of action.

In my opinion, a girl’s liking for someone can be divided into three areas:

The lower one looks at the form, the middle one looks at the technique, and the upper one looks at the path.

The translation of this sentence is to judge whether a girl has a good impression of herself.

The general public observes the body language and micro expressions of girls, while advanced performance is analyzed based on traditional models, while high-level individuals grasp the overall situation from a macro perspective.

But many people don’t think so, not because they think these three standards are wrong, but because they feel that this order is biased.

In public psychology, sensation is the fundamental criterion for judgment, and the advanced method is pattern reasoning. Only high-level individuals will interpret a girl’s micro expressions and movements.

But after reading my article today, you will understand why I said this order is biased.

Interpreting micro expressions and actions

I think many people consider the interpretation of microexpressions and body language to be highly sophisticated, which is why they believe it should be considered a means of kingship.

I thought the same way a few years ago, and even now the book ‘FBI Teaches You Mind Reading’ is still on my bookshelf.

But after studying for so long, I found that ordinary people simply don’t know how to apply any mysterious interpretation techniques, even if they turn a book yellow.

Do you think about the difference between “dilated pupils” and “glowing pupils” when you see a girl?

You can’t?

You are not an expert, and when you see a girl’s movements, you may think of interpreting them, but it is very likely that you have misunderstood the movements from the beginning.

When someone touches their nose, they may want to sneeze, but in your mind, you think of something in a certain book that says it’s a sign of panic.

The clothes she was wearing today were a bit tight and she was constantly adjusting, but when you think about it, it’s a sign of pressure.

Come on, come on, don’t interpret it anymore. You’ve already gone thousands of miles off topic.

Without specialized training and sufficient experience, reading some dogmatic and obscure books, it’s strange not to deviate from the direction.

But does this mean that there is no need for interpretation, and all interpretations are wrong?

Of course not, some body movements and expressions have very obvious meanings that do not require theoretical study. With a little bit of wisdom, one can understand them based on their senses.

I will now teach you some of the most practical and common techniques for interpreting micro expressions.

①. Eye Kill

Have you all watched ‘Journey to the West’?

Why do many people consider a certain photo of Zhu Yin as a supporting image?

It can be understood by individuals, because that look is full of love, it is a manifestation of deep affection, commonly known as:

If you like someone, there will be stars in your eyes.

When a girl likes someone, her gaze cannot be hidden. Her eyes are not only lively, but also full of laughter, especially when she involuntarily opens them wide.

If you can’t remember such simple details, then remember one thing: when you’re with her, how much time does she spend staring at you?

It’s best to say goodbye to this point. If she is always attracted to other things or focused on playing with her phone when she is with you, then she definitely thinks you are boring.

②. Contact distance and posture

Once we see someone we dislike coming over, we always say, ‘Don’t come over, don’t touch me.’.

Only when one has enough trust in someone will they not refuse close contact.

There are no obstacles between two people, and body movements cannot deceive people. One or two movements can be concealed, but no one can always conceal everything.

If she goes out to eat with you and sits down, but unconsciously places her bag or tissue horizontally between you, like building a barrier, then she is definitely wary of you.

If she unconsciously opens her body to stretch in front of you, even causing Ge You to collapse, it can indicate that your relationship is relatively close.

The instinct of living beings tells us that if something in front of us is something we dislike, we will unconsciously sit upright, because subconsciously we believe that a battle will start at any moment and we need to be prepared to escape.

Interaction patterns and contact performance

Compared to the first method, this approach is more practical and less prone to judgment errors.

Because what you need to refer to is the basic reaction of a girl, can you still not tell whether she is positive or not in her chat feedback, and can you still not tell whether she is proactive or indifferent towards you?

However, the pattern is dead, and people are alive, so we still need to pay attention to some small flaws hidden in this pattern.

Because this judgment is based on the other party’s most likely reaction, but the actual situation is not so clear-cut, and there are still many small details that can interfere.

For example, if a girl replies to messages slowly, it is basically because she is indifferent to the boy, but what if he happens to have something urgent at that time?

We will explain it clearly in three points this time, each of which includes “the best response to grasp” and “the precautions to be taken when making judgments”.

① I will actively tell you my story, even if it seems incomprehensible

Have you heard the song ‘The Inner Activity When I Like You’?

Its lyrics are particularly in line with the subtitle I came up with.

Although the content is verbose, it is a straightforward description of a person’s thoughts and ideas, and the description is very accurate.

Girls are the easiest to be nonsensical, and when they talk, they don’t know what they’re talking about.

Girls love to communicate their emotions with others. Once they like someone, they will take the initiative to tell that person their story, emotions, and state.

Girls have too much to say, so they can chat for a long time, but the premise is to chat with the person they like.

If the girl you are interested in often tells you some details of her life, then she must really like you, think you are a trustworthy person who is willing to listen and connect with her, and will not find her verbose.

Sometimes girls will send a cold tweet to boys, or suddenly tell a story

Or simply say some illogical words like ‘chicken soup for the soul’ that are not actually ‘chicken soup for the soul’, which is actually a very reassuring way to share.

At this point, there’s no need to dwell on what she wants to express. She just saw or remembered it and told you along the way.

② It seems that there is always time, and the success rate of inviting her out is extremely high

Many boys may know that girls need to prepare for a long time before going out to play, but they don’t have a specific concept of this time.

Indeed, it is common for people to refuse to go shopping with friends today because they were too busy yesterday and didn’t wash their hair.

I have to explain here that girls who refuse to go out because they haven’t washed their hair are not being sentimental, but pursuing beauty, pleasing themselves, and respecting others.

It is normal for girls like this to spend an hour dressing up before going out. If attending an important occasion or meeting someone they care about, dressing up for three or four hours is not excessive.

I want to ask you, if you invite her to dinner and she has to dress up for an hour or two before going out, and this is the first time this has happened, do you think she’s troublesome …..

You shouldn’t really think that she thinks the restaurant you booked is particularly delicious, right?

To be honest, if a girl just wants to go shopping, she just needs to call her best friend, which is the same as when a boy goes black.

Under such circumstances, every time you ask her out, she agrees to you. What do you think she means?

③ Don’t worry about awkward conversations or getting stuck in the chat

If a girl is not interested in you and you feel tired, that’s for sure. You should at least think about what to talk about when you see her, which pitfalls to avoid, and when to change the topic …..

But when you think about the time you spent with your ex girlfriend before, did you always have a worried heart and worry about whether you would end up chatting?

At that time, she either took the initiative to share the topic with you, or took over the topic you proposed, or naturally switched to the next topic while chatting. In short, she provided a high proportion of your conversation.

Give two examples to make you feel the difference.

Man: I have opened a restaurant and I have tried it. The taste is good, you can also give it a try.

Woman: Okay, are there many people?

Man: Not much, but try to avoid peak hours as it can be a bit noisy.

Female: Okay, thank you.

Man: A new restaurant has opened. I’ve tried it before and it tastes good. You can also give it a try.

Woman: Great, I’ve heard about a new restaurant opening there for a long time. My colleague said there’s another restaurant in the newly opened commercial area with a similar taste. Have you tried it before?

Man: No, is that delicious?

Female: My colleague said it’s pretty good, but my weight loss plan for this month is going to fall through again.

Now, do you understand?

Grasp the macro situation and overall state

Why do I define this as the highest level?

Because this is the standard that tests your judgment ability, or in other words, it is the most accurate standard.

When you are very conflicted about whether she likes you or not, there is a high probability that she doesn’t like you at all

People who want to understand this must resonate with this sentence.

Why do you say that?

Because the process of pursuing her is too arduous, you have to worry about everything, and you can’t fully devote yourself to enjoying this process. How could she feel like enjoying it?

A man meets a woman, and if the woman likes him, she must be walking in the same direction. This process is very smooth and easy, and even exclaims how time passes so quickly.

If you feel particularly exhausted, conflicted, and time passes slowly, then it goes without saying that you are walking forward on your own and still have to pull her, and she hasn’t exerted any strength.

This feeling is different from being presumptuous. If you have had the experience of being presumptuous, you must understand that such people are actually very guilty.

Always pretend to be liked by others, as if they like you, and try to find evidence to prove it.

If you don’t have this mentality, it means you’re not being overly sentimental, but it’s also true that she doesn’t feel anything for you.

True love should be when two people hit it off right away, not when they feel satisfied with each other.

But on this basis, you still feel very compatible. You just have the mentality of verifying this idea, rather than trying to find evidence to prove that it is not a delusion.

Trust your intuition, she likes you, and your intuition will definitely tell you.